Zhou Hongyi: People who are a bit gangster are more likely to make money. 985 college students are too obedient.

Today 360 Zhou Hongyi shared a unique perspective of his.Zhou Hongyi believes that people with a bit of "bandit spirit" are often more likely to succeed and make money.The "bandit spirit" he refers to does not refer to hooligan habits such as smoking, drinking, fighting, etc., but refers to the aura of a strong person who breaks away from tradition and does not follow the rules, that is, the aura of being unconventional and unique.

This temperament is characterized by being proactive, always believing in one's own subjective initiative, having abundant inner energy, always competing with the outside world, and even fighting head-on. Therefore, in the eyes of outsiders, these people are full of aggression and fighting spirit, and they always have the urge to not follow the rules and break the rules.

However,Today’s education mostly focuses on cultivating docile and obedient children., excellent children are all bookish, and schools and teachers generally don’t like naughty children.Therefore, many 985 students lack the kind of strong aura that breaks away from tradition and does not follow the rules.

After many years of education and academic training, although I have the ability to look at problems calmly and objectively,But too many bookish people will also appear indecisive, follow the rules, do things according to the rules, and never get out of the circle. In the current society, it is difficult to achieve great success.

Therefore, Zhou Hongyi suggested that parents should cultivate a little "bandit spirit" in their children, because they will have a higher sense of competition and stronger human abilities. When a child is half elegant, half "gangster", and possesses wisdom and courage at the same time, he will have more opportunities to stand out. In his life, many times it is necessary to have the ability to seize opportunities.

So how to cultivate the so-called "bandit spirit" in children? In fact, there is no need to cultivate it deliberately, children are born with vitality. As long as there are no restrictions or restraints on the child, give the child enough space, let the child grow naturally, develop freely, and respect the child's interests and choices.

It's in children's nature to explore the unknown, and there may be some frustration when they try new things. At this time, do not give immediate solutions, but guide them to think and solve problems on their own. Let children understand that failure is part of learning and growing.

Over time, our children will have their own ideas and paths, breaking through the constraints of convention.